April is Autism Awareness Month

April 10, 2008

I found out a little late in the game that April is Autism Awareness Month.  I am not sure how official it is…it may be a bunch of bloggers just got together and said, “HEY! Let’s proclaim Autism Awareness Month!” but that’s still good enough for me.  I do know April 2 was World Autism Awareness Day.  Missed that too.  But I DID buy a Autism Awareness sticker at Toys R Us for $1!  Anyway, I will be blogging as much as I can this month about my search for answers and our Early Intervention journey.  Please click on the widget on the right to find some wonderful blogs by others whose lives have been affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders.

I have a child who appears to be on the Autism Spectrum and is receiving therapy through Early Intervention (more on that another time).  What are Autism Spectrum Disorders or Pervasive Developmental Disorders?  They are a cluster of neurological disorders that cause developmental delays in varying levels of severity.   They range from Autistic Disorder, Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified, Asperger Syndrome, and Rett Syndrome. 

The rate of Autism cases in children is growing at a frightening rate and yet science has still not been able to pin down a specific cause.   The Autism Society of America states on its website, “Though there is no single known cause or cure, autism is treatable. Children do not “outgrow” autism, but studies show that early diagnosis and intervention can lead to significantly improved outcomes. With the right services and supports, people with autism can live full, healthy and meaningful lives. ”   Autism Society of America http://www.autism-society.org/site/PageServer

They also include this listing of some of the signs of Autism.  I have placed a star next ot the characteristics that my son Percy exhibits and the italics are my comments.     (source)

Persons with autism may also exhibit some of the following traits:

  • Insistence on sameness; resistance to change  * (he has problems with transitions)
  • Difficulty in expressing needs, using gestures or pointing instead of words  *
  • Repeating words or phrases in place of normal, responsive language  ( ?- my son just doesn’t speak!)
  • Laughing (and/or crying) for no apparent reason showing distress for reasons not apparent to others *
  • Preference to being alone; aloof manner * (sometimes…he is inconsistent)
  • Tantrums  * (that is an understatement)
  • Difficulty in mixing with others * (he can be too rough, or may prefer to be alone)
  • Not wanting to cuddle or be cuddled * (often, and in the beginning, but lately he is growing more affectionate! yaay!)
  • Little or no eye contact * (depends on his activity)
  • Unresponsive to normal teaching methods  (?–too soon to tell, but often it seems like he is not processing what we try and teach him)
  • Sustained odd play * (he plays by mouthing objects excessively and eating things that aren’t food)
  • Spinning objects
  • Obsessive attachment to objects
  • Apparent over-sensitivity or under-sensitivity to pain * (very under-sensitive)
  • No real fears of danger *
  • Noticeable physical over-activity or extreme under-activity * (OVER actvity)
  • Uneven gross/fine motor skills
  • Non responsive to verbal cues; acts as if deaf, although hearing tests in normal range. *

Some of these fall into the “too soon to tell” category for us.  Percy also has some “stims” (self-stimulating behavior) like stomping and spinning and sometimes flapping his hands.   Unfortunately has also has the “aggressive and/or self-injurious behavior”.  He hurts himself and others when he loses his temper.  He has been known to bang his head on the floor until he bleeds.  He has also bitten a child he didn’t know because that child happened to walk by while my son was angry and lashed out and bit the nearest object.  Usually it is his poor older brother who bears the full force of his fury.  He is also almost 2 and barely speaks.  He only has 2 words I understand. 

Percy does not have all the characteristics of Autism.  He does have emotional interaction with us and has a huge, brilliant smile when he is happy.  Official diagnosis is not usually made until around 3, but I would have to say that right now he seems to display signs of what they call PDD-NOS (Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified).  Wikipedia says “PDD-NOS is a diagnosis for people who are well-described by the ”PDD” label, but can’t be categorized by any other disorder.  It is usually milder than autism and has similar symptoms to autism, with some symptoms present, and others absent.”    

Here’s a twist.  The ASA states, “The term “PDD” is widely used by professionals to refer to children with autism and related disorders; however, there is a great deal of disagreement and confusion among professionals concerning the PDD label.“  One of those disagreements is whether or not Sensory Integration Dysfunction is a neurologial disorder on the Autism Spectrum.   Both of my children suffer from severe sensory integration issues, but again I will have to save that for another post.  In the meantime you can read what good ole’ Wikipedia has to say  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sensory_Integration_Dysfunction 

There is so much information that I am leaving out.  I wish that I could provide a more complete picture but it is simply too broad a subject.   I want to stress again the importance of the ASA’s statement “early diagnosis and intervention can lead to significantly improved outcomes”.  During the first few years of life, especially to age 3,  the brains of young children grow at a phenomenal rate.  Early Intervention can help tap into that growth period and promote improved development.   I can already see positive changes in my son and it has been less than a month!   However, even children who are diagnosed later will still benefit from treatment. 

A word to any parents who are considering seeking help for their children–I knew for a long time that something was unusual about my child before I sought help.  Now I am so glad I did.  But it was hard.  Some people said I was overreacting.  My child’s former pediatrician did not validate my concerns and was even dismissive of me.  He said we should wait until he was 3 or so and see what happens.  I think he was wrong and have a new doctor now.  If I had waited then I would have missed out on the chance to immediately start enhancing my son’s development and my family’s quality of life.   You are your child’s best advocate.  You know them better than anyone.  If you have a concern then I encourage you to get then evaluated.  It is free through your local government and is your right as a tax-paying citizen.   I will provide more information later on the services provided by Early Intervention, though the process varies from state to state.  In the meantime if you have any questions you can email me at life.as.a.platypus@gmail.com .    You are not alone. 

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  • 1. thecanvasgrey  |  April 10, 2008 at 10:21 pm

    Goldie, wonderful post. My Big Boy is now almost 10 and sounds very much like your son at 2. You’ve absolutely done the right thing (our doc was reluctant but I pushed forward). Sign language was our first step and it make communications possible until the verbal came along. Debi

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  • 2. Goldie  |  April 10, 2008 at 10:30 pm

    Thank you and welcome! Sign language has been SO helpful to us already! He only has a few but he seems a bit more calm now that he feels more empowered to communicate.

    This is going to sound silly, but I am glad that what I describe about my son sounds familar to someone else. It makes me feel validated that I am on the right track. I feel the current need to label his disorder so I can know what I am facing, but since he has not been offically diagnosed I am going on instinct and research. Part of me feels like I am exaggerating when I say “my son displays autistic tendencies”, making a bigger deal out of than I need to, I don’t know, like it would come across as attention-seeking? I DON”T want to put him in a box, but I feel like if I knew what I was facing it would give me more control b/c I would know what to do about it. I am still fumbling in the dark.

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  • 3. pppj  |  April 10, 2008 at 10:30 pm

    Excellent post! My son is very good friends (age 12) with a boy who has autism. He is a wonderful friend, good sense of humor, and just great. The kids at school love him, and when they all went to ‘the big middle school’ this year his buddies were worried someone might pick on him but guess what – NO ONE DID.

    Great job for informing everyone about your journey.

    Thanks! And I LOVE that story. It encourages me.

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  • 4. Goldie  |  April 10, 2008 at 10:31 pm

    By the way, I am NO expert and I tried to piece together the information as best I could with as much accuracy as possible. If anyone sees something amiss in my posts please let me know!!

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  • 5. highhopes1  |  April 11, 2008 at 10:42 am

    Goldie,

    “my son displays autistic tendencies”, making a bigger deal out of than I need to, I don’t know, like it would come across as attention-seeking? I DON”T want to put him in a box, but I feel like if I knew what I was facing it would give me more control b/c I would know what to do about it. I am still fumbling in the dark.”

    You are not putting your son in a box and never ever let anyone discourage you for doing what is the best for your son! No one knows your child better than you. You are being a brave, great and responsible parent. Most parents would be paralyzed to even think of a possible diagnosis of autism.

    Look at the intervention and tools you have gained for your son. You have given him a head start rather than leaving it and seeing where the chips fall. You aren’t making a big deal out of and it is with early intervention before he is in school that your son’s school experience is going to be better because you have laid the ground work and will give the teachers the tools to teach your child in an effective manner.

    Thanks so much HH! It has been scary to admit there was a problem. I am immensely grateful for the help and treatment he is receiving. The “box” thing I was referring to was my inward urges to place a specific name on his struggles. I don’t in reality want to him to be on the Autism Spectrum, but in a strange way I found it comforting to be able to say that. I figured out another reason why I feel that way, besides the need to know what I am facing. It is because if I can say “my child displays autistic-like symptoms” then I can belong to a COMMUNITY. I am part of a specific group of other people who have been there and understand and somehow that makes me feel even more empowered. Yet I am still afraid that I am being somehow inappropriate to label my son since he has not been officially diagnosed.

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  • 6. Pixie  |  April 11, 2008 at 12:37 pm

    Wow…this is so similar to what we’ve gone through with our 5 yr old, Hayley. Hayley stopped speaking and making sounds (babbling) within a month of her 12 month immunizations. Our doc dismissed everything, so I left her out and went to our public health on my own. Hayley has been in speech therapy since she was 2. I have been told by many that immunizations have been blamed for autism in children, but there is no “proof”. About a month ago we were watching CNN and a couple had successfully sued over their daughter’s autism caused by immunizations. Hayley is not autistic, and for that we are grateful, but she is still so far behind. High Hopes is aware of my/our story and has been helpful! We were also reading about Jenny McCarthy (the actress) and her battle with her child’s autism, and how she changed his diet and how much that has helped him. She wrote a book about it, “Louder Than Words: A Mother’s Journey in Healing Autism”, and I really want to read it!
    Goldie: You are so not alone!! You are doing a great job, and you’re doing the right thing. I swear some doctors just see ‘emotional parent’ and write everything off…they don’t know your baby like you do; don’t let them discourage you. :D

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  • 7. Pixie  |  April 11, 2008 at 12:38 pm

    And thank you for all the information you posted!!!!

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  • 8. Goldie  |  April 11, 2008 at 1:05 pm

    Thanks, Pixie! I am so sorry to hear about your struggles. Every time my son goes for immunizations my soul seems frozen in fear that he will slip further away. My speculation is that children who have a tendency toward autism-like disorders and who are sensitive are possibly overloaded and pushed over the edge by their little bodies being bombarded with foreign material. SPECULATION. Research ruled out some of the preservatives as a cause I believe, but have they done much research on other possible ways the immunizations could cause it? SO many apparent links in children who have just gotten shots and then REGRESS. It chills me. PLUS autism is on the rise. SOMETHING is causing it!! What is it? Chemicals oozing from soft plastics? Hormones in our meat? Pollution? What what??? I feel like if it is increasing then there must be something in our world that children are being exposed to more often than in previous generations. OR are numbers increasing just because of the rise in Early Intervention, where as before there were no resources to help or diagnose children?
    So many questions.

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  • 9. highhopes1  |  April 11, 2008 at 3:19 pm

    Goldie,

    I think you are right on so many levels here. I think we are a more aware of developmental delay and various diagnoses of autism because of early childhood education. In the past (50-60 years) people would put it down to behavior problems, etc, mental retardation was a catch all. More research has been done and we are learning more and more about autism and conditions like autism every day. 20 years ago children would not have gotten the help they have today. I think why we are diagnosing autism and other disorders more is because we actually know what we are dealing with. Just the fact that doctors and nurses have benchmarks – (milestones) for children tells you how much we have advanced in this area. Eventually we will figure out the genetic code, which will lead to new treatments.

    Children are in daycare more now than ever due to parents working and the early childhood educators generally have university courses under their belts when teaching, so they see the clues and will alert parents.

    Parents are also more adept at reading the clues from their kids and are more willing to ask their doctors why is my child not hitting those milestones. In my experience in working in physicians office for over 20 years when a mom calls you and tells you there is something wrong or not right with her child you take it seriously.

    I think that we also have so many environmental factors involved here too, chemicals in plastic, in foods, medicines, I think it all plays a role. I’m still mixed on immunizations, because I do think there is value in them, but I am still cautious. It is a catch 22 if you don’t immunize your child they could get the disease and it could kill them, so what do you do?

    I would suggest getting your kids in to see a pediatric neurologist. A pediatrician is an okay step, but a neurologist specializes in diagnosing diseases and conditions of the brain and nervous system. I said kids because I read your other post on “get rid of me”. Or have Percy seen and when you are in there ask the question would it be worthwhile to go through this testing for my other son? Your child will probably have an EEG (electroencephalogram) these don’t hurt, they attach electrodes to the scalp with sticky stuff and it traces brain activity – it is like an electrical road map of what the brain is doing. Your son may also have a CT scan (computed tomography) which doesn’t take much time at all and it gives a really good picture of the brain. The doctor may order an MRI (magnetic resonance scan) which actually gives better detail. None of these tests hurt and are very effective. Basically they will look for organic problems or defects.

    Before you go to see your doctor you may want to explore some family history on both sides. You need to ask both sets of grandparents if there is any family history of behavior like this. Is there any history of epilepsy or other neurological disorders in either tree of the family. Bring a list of Percy’s milestones. These are the things that you will be asked at a neuro consult. If you are prepared it gives the neurologist more to go on. Your child doesn’t have to be afraid of a neurological exam either, there is nothing painful about them, they examine the child like any other doctor, test reflexes and give them simple tests to do, i.e. touching their finger to their nose. You may not get all the answers, but it is a start and as a parent knowledge is power when we are trying to help our kids.

    You have my email addy, if you want to talk more email me.

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  • 10. thecanvasgrey  |  April 11, 2008 at 8:50 pm

    Goldie,

    I offer myself too. So if ever you need to ask a question or need to talk send me an email.

    (thecanvasgrey@hotmail.com)

    Sincerely, Debi

    Thank you so much, Debi! Do I know you by another name from somewhere else? We seem to have a LOT of common friends. And let me just say that your blog name is the coolest EVER…oh, except for Fighting Windmills. It did take me some time to figure out what yours meant though *thunk*

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  • 11. Marye~  |  April 11, 2008 at 9:43 pm

    I am currently exploring possible explanations for my 8 years old son’s exaggerated temper. I appreciate your sharing what your dealing with in your life.

    Thank you! It is such a comfort to know that I am able to somehow be a help or encouragement to others while I am trying to find my way and sharing my struggles. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.

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  • 12. Boo Sr.  |  April 12, 2008 at 12:14 am

    Thank you, Goldie, and all the other blogger buddies who read this and gave their stories and input. Although I’m not obsessive (I don’t think), it seems like human nature to list and try to connect various symptoms and worry about “what do I have– does this headache mean I have a brain tumor?” As moms, we do this 10 times more obsessively for our kids. And that kind of is our job– to advocate for them and do the very best we can for them. But, just like we want a diagnosis and a magic pill when we go to the doctor, it’s so hard to not know and just think or suspect what it is. I challenge you to continue to find out what you want and need to know, and give the suspicion a name. It sure will be a lot easier to treat when that’s discovered. By the way, on another support site I also saw someone who suggested that gluten and other allergens may have an affect on autistic children, so that might be something to look into.

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  • 13. Goldie  |  April 12, 2008 at 8:04 am

    Thank you for thanking me boo! I got so overwhelmed last night for several reasons…
    -strangers were finding each other on my site and supporting each other
    -people were so generous and caring and supportive
    -people were thanking ME for telling My story!

    I tell my story for selfish and self-less reasons. I need to vent, first of all! But I also hope that by sharing my struggles and triumphs I can somehow help encourage and educate other people and raise awareness about the growing problem of autism.

    I would love for other people to share their stories here. I have created a new page for your thoughts and questions and rants. Let’s support each other! I look forward to reading your posts.

    http://lifeasaplatypus.wordpress.com/your-stories-of-life-with-autism-spectrum-disorders/

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  • 15. Boo Sr.  |  April 12, 2008 at 7:47 pm

    Congrats! You are doing a good and cathartic thing for yourself and the other moms out there. After reading your listing of symptoms, I’m wondering if my nephew, who will be starting speech therapy, may also have some autistic behaviors as well. But he is already in early intervention and may go to a special preschool thorugh his county next year. Again, lots of assistance available if you or your doctor can tell you about it!

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  • 16. Terrie  |  April 13, 2008 at 11:47 am

    My son was originally diagnosed when he was 5, but nobody thought to explain to me that what they were talking about was in fact Autism. As a result various situations arose that could have been prevented. Many years later, following a complete breakdown, he was rediagnosed and the full extent of his problems revealed. The diagnosis hasn’t changed him but has enabled me to put in place the correct support structures.

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  • 17. Goldie  |  April 13, 2008 at 2:17 pm

    Hi Terrie. Your story makes me sad. It is infuriating that these types of problems keep happening. It especially creates difficulties when trying to get help for your children in the school system. If they are misdiagnosed or labeled too “high functioning” then concessions are often not made for their unique needs. Mothers are simply seen as difficult when really they are just trying to make sure their children feel comfortable in school.
    I read about one mother’s battle here
    http://fe-fesworld.blogspot.com/2008/04/worst-year-of-my-life.html

    That type of problem may not be what you are referring to, but it made me think of it. I am so glad that you now have the support you need! That is one benefit to having a “label” Thank you for taking the time to share part of your experience.

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